Making a Date with Art

The Towner Art Gallery, Eastbourne Image: Wendy Barton

One of the recommended activities of The Artist’s Way is that you make an art date part of your weekly schedule. For two hours, you fill your creative well with something just for you. It may mean visiting your favourite stationery shop, attending a concert or going to an art gallery. Whatever you do, you do it alone and give it your full attention. Selfish? Perhaps. Unnecessary? Hardly. Because if we want to have any hope of fulfilling our artistic yearnings, we must absorb as much creativity as possible from others, both to inspire and nourish ourselves.

Getting started

The hardest part of this assignment is getting started. Who has two hours to dawdle in a museum, watch a favourite film or wander a flea market looking for curiosities? Our instinctive response is no-one. Yet, the answer is actually everyone.

Like most people, I struggled to ‘find the time’. I’d manage one week and be tired and miss the next. My Puritan work ethic frowned at the frivolity. My sense of the rather hopeless endeavour of making any money from my work made we wonder if it were just a waste of time. My lack of any sense of being worthy of spoiling myself for a whole two hours each week was perhaps the most damning of all. So my attendance was erratic at best.

Except that sometimes I did manage to go. And each two hour session was like a mini holiday from life. After, I returned home refreshed and energised. Any tasks that had been set aside to allow me this break were soon accomplished.

Making the commitment

Luckily for me, I live very close to an award winning modern art gallery with a superb building, a library and a cafe. So I have committed to go every Tuesday when it is quiet and recharge my depleted creative batteries. I’ve become a museum member out of gratitude for the wonderful service they offer and to be more informed about up-coming exhibitions and events. It was £50 well spent.

Membership pack Image: Karen Costello-McFeat

I’ve also worked out a way to give my visits a sense of purpose. Though the exhibitions do revolve fairly often, they certainly do not do so every week. So how was I best to use the time I was there?

Primarily, I decided to see all the exhibition and then review a few of the paintings in more detail: thinking about the choices the artist made, the mediums used, looking for tiny details. Still, I had quite a lot of time left.

A beautiful library

While wandering about the Ravilious room for the umpteenth time, I glanced at the well-stocked library there. Hmm, I thought to myself. I have always loved art, but am entirely ignorant of so much art history. Perhaps I could use this time to become better informed.

My first forays were random. I’d select a book I liked the look of, make some notes and a sketch and then head for the cafe. Then it struck me that I might want to be a little more coordinated. What if I began at A and worked my way through to Z? I didn’t need to pick up everything, but I would be guaranteed to learn a lot. My art teacher’s daughter rather grandly calls it my self-directed art study; I call it stimulating play.

B is for Blackadder Image: Karen Costello-McFeat

Making the most of books

I seldom have time to read the entire book, but I do have time to skim and jot down any key ideas. These gorgeous volumes are filled with high quality images and I try each time to select one, or part of one, to sketch. In doing so, I imprint the artist far more clearly in my mind than mere notes would do. Even though I have only coloured pencils to work with, it is enough.

Practical notes Image: Karen Costello-McFeat

Sources of inspiration

How do you know what you like if you haven’t been exposed to all the possibilities? The oft quoted, ‘I don’t know much about art, but I know what I like’ encapsulates this attitude, because ‘what we like’ is more often than not what we are familiar with rather than any aesthetic choice.

Writing this, I realise that I must put aside my prejudice against photography books. Next week, I shall have to pick one up!

Yet, as I work through these publications, I realise that I am drawn to certain styles. Not because one is ‘better’ but rather fits my interests. I love nature studies, print making and images combined with text. These may well guide me in my own art adventures.

Detail from Carry Akroyd’s ‘natures powers and spells’ Image: Karen Costello-McFeat

Carry Akroyd uses exquisite nature prints overlaid with poetry by John Clare to express her concern over the diminishment of the English countryside (which was Clare’s concern too). The text weaves through the image, illuminating it. History and the present fuse and we are left, hopefully, encouraged to act to protect this precious Earth.

A little reward

When I am finished with my viewing, my reading and my sketching, I retire to the modern cafe for my refreshment. Of course, I could go home and have a cup of tea, but there is something deliciously decadent about having one made for you. And making this experience one of self-love and self-care is part of its charm.

Tea for one Image: Karen Costello-McFeat

At an art museum, it is quite fine to sit by oneself and ponder. I often do a little doodle or start on a poem, because such moments of absolute tranquillity are rare. They are also, very precious.

What is stopping you?

Art dates are considerably more fulfilling than the usual activities we fill our days with. Finding two hours to yourself may feel like an indulgence, but it is really no longer than episode or two on Netflix and a fraction of the time the average person spends on social media.

Valuing ourselves and our creative journeys is paramount if we are to live our best lives. So go ahead. Plan a trip, make a date and remember that you really are worth it!

Treading a New Path

Tempting though it may be to sink into the comfortable predictability of late middle age, that is definitely not for me. Life has always seemed too short to satisfy my rather boundless curiosity and now, of course, it is shorter still. So, when reading a fabulous arts magazine I came across the fourth reference to a book I have been meaning to acquire for decades, I took the universe’s hint, logged into eBay and bought it.

Some of you will already be familiar with this seminal work. The Artist’s Way was published in the early 1990s and is a standard text for all those wanting to pursue a creative path. Perhaps the title put me off (I’m certainly no artist) but it is written by a writer for all artists -whether working in the visual or literary spheres. It is equally applicable to anyone wanting to live more creatively whether they produce anything or not. If I had known quite what I was letting myself in for, I may have opted to purchase a novel instead, but now I have begun this new journey, I will have to finish it.

It started with a book Image: Karen Costello-McFeat

I am reaching the end of the first week and have completed all the assignments to date – yes, this is not a book to read but to work from. The primary assignment that continues throughout (and which most readers continue well after the final page in the book is closed) is a three page freewriting exercise. Sadly, the only empty notebook I had was an A4 Pukka pad.

Facing the blank page

Each morning I must fill these pages with whatever thoughts enter my mind without editing or reviewing. (I’m not allowed to read these pages for a further seven weeks.) It’s not exactly a diary, but more a stream of consciousness. Throughout my teaching career, I have taught students to use free-writing to discover ideas and solve puzzles. It is a technique I often employ myself, but doing it every day and to such a length (about 750 words) is another matter entirely. A full 45 minutes to an hour must be found in addition to that for meditation and yoga. (My early mornings are getting seriously busy!)

What shall I write today? Image: Karen Costello-McFeat

Confronting the blank page is, as always, a challenge. Yet, with the tight time constraints of my morning, I certainly can’t doodle or arrange paper clips as I might if more time were available. And what exactly do I have to say?

The answer is: a surprising amount. No sooner has my pen touched the page than I am off. Sometimes happily rambling, other times problem solving and occasionally coming up with a line or metaphor that I rather like. Since no-one is going to read it but me, I am free to do exactly what I please and this liberation alone is exhilarating. And once the three pages are complete, it’s time for the next exercise. These are all short, witty and often illuminating. I certainly enjoyed writing an imaginary letter to thank my wonderful English teacher who instilled me with a life-long love of literature and language. (I also rather relished the somewhat rude one I wrote to a domineering drama teacher who snuffed the tiny flicker of confidence I had in the performing arts.)

Facing your demons

Writing in this way has often been used for therapy. Expressing our thoughts and emotions freely in this form can be extremely liberating and clarifying. It is also a fabulous way to put events into perspective. When we see it written down, a huge and threatening fear becomes diminished by its representation through small marks on a page.

And fear is the greatest enemy for anyone wishing to be creative. Will it be good enough? Will it be appreciated? Will I be shamed for my efforts? All artists face these fears and having produced a masterpiece does not exempt you from them. I often think the successful artist has the toughest challenge in this regard. They are expected to be brilliant all the time. The rest of us are happy if one or two people say that they like it.

Taking courage to venture into our own dark woods Image: Branimir Balogovic on Unsplash

A habit of writing – regularly and without criticism – is the best antidote to this. Writing becomes natural, subject to errors but also to revelation. So many of us do not write, even to dear friends, because they are frightened their writing will not be good enough. We are not aiming for publication, only communication, and whatever we say from our hearts will be perfect.

Artist date

The second regular exercise is what she terms the artist date. For two hours a week, you set aside time to pursue something that will satisfy your creative cravings. Perhaps you will go to a museum, buy art supplies, or take the time to make something. By setting this time aside in the diary, it elevates a vague desire into a definite commitment. This week, with my two hours on a quiet day ‘booked in’, I finally got around to a simple sewing project that had been rattling about in my head for ages. Amazingly, it was successful and I hope to be able to replicate this success in future projects.

If you were able to allocate two hours in a week (and I would hope everyone has at least that much time) where would your creativity take you?

Who knows where this journey will lead? Image: Levi Bare on Unsplash

I have only just begun and though I suspect that this journey in creativity will have its obstacles and frustrations like any other travel adventure, I am curious to see where it will lead. Will I revisit and revise my teen novel? Start writing poetry again? Find an entirely new way of exploring my creative needs? I have no idea. But then, the joy of an adventure is not knowing where it will end.